I just got back from the â€œLunchtime Jamboree.â€ One of our regulars came back to work today after loosing his wife of 35 years last week. It is hard to know what to say to someone who has gone through such a hardship. So many people fall back on old clichÃ©s. I just try and make myself available. I hope I am as in love with my wife when I am his age. That kind of loss seems unimaginable. Hug your family.